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My name is Joshua Sigafus.
I’m a life, dating, and motivation coach.
In other words—I’m in the business of helping people fix their lives and level-up their dating game.
Since I was a boy, my life has been pretty normal.
I went to school, I graduated, I started my career, I got married, and I had two wonderful children.
I even started a business at the age of 22!
Not bad, right?
Well, despite how good my life looked on paper—let me assure you that things were not quite as ‘happy’ as they seemed.
It all came to a head in 2017 when my wife told me that she was done.
Long story short—my happy life came crashing down.
I was forced to start all over again, from scratch.
Except that this time, I was determined to do it right!
I was depressed, filled with anxiety, and felt hopeless.
My dating life was also a trainwreck!
Long story short—I was a mess.
But the worst part of it was that I didn’t know what was wrong with me.
Why was my life falling apart? What was I doing so wrong in my life to cause all of this?
And to be honest, I can’t even tell you exactly what it was that gave me the ‘aha’ moment that saved my life.
I was doing a lot of research.
I was reading books by great authors, listening to powerful speakers, and doing everything I could to figure out what was wrong with my life.
I wanted to fix it. I was tired of failing.
I was tired of being unhappy.
I was tired of always losing.
And when I finally realized the problem, my entire world began to shift.
I realized that I was not intentionally creating my destiny in life. I was reacting to the chaos, and giving away all of my power.
This concept is as simple as simple gets.
But it was not easy to change.
I needed to relearn all of my habits.
I needed to admit that I had been the one who destroyed my own life.
I needed to take responsibility for my failings, and start standing up on my own two feet.
But most importantly, I needed to adopt an alpha mindset. I needed to completely re-wire the way I thought about life, dating, and my future.
I learned that the alpha mindset was what my life had been lacking.
And as I began to understand this mindset and apply it on a daily basis, my life began to change for the better.
Eventually, I put together my own personal alpha code. I call this code The Oath Of Kings And Queens. It is a set of vows and rules that I swear to live by on a daily basis.
And I cannot even express to you how radically transformative they have been!
As I changed my habits and took back control of my life, I realized that it was time to step into the breach and help other men and women who are going through some of the things I had gone through.
This has become my new life’s purpose—to help men and women to fix their lives, adopt the alpha mentality, and level-up their dating game.
Minus a few details, that’s the whole story!
If your life is in chaos, your dating life is a mess, and/or you just need some help getting things on track, here is where you should start.
