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If you’re here, it’s probably because you want your life to be awesome. 

You want to succeed, you want to thrive, you want to prosper, and you want to take your power back in lifeto conquer all of the most important, vital life domains that are important to you (stuff like dating, fitness, business, money, relationships, leadership, fulfillment, and purpose). 

Well, you’re in the right place. Because the alpha mentality can absolutely help you to achieve all of these things, and more.

What I Do

And how I help people on the 'Alpha Journey'

My name is Joshua K. Sigafus. I’m a writer, podcaster, YouTuber, and fellow alpha mentality enthusiast. And since 2017, I’ve been on my own alpha journey in life—learning everything there is to know about the business of becoming truly alpha, and succeeding at all of the important ‘life’ stuff that matters—stuff like dating, business, fitness, relationships, leadership, financial freedom, purpose, mentality, happiness, inner peace, etc. 

And I’m here to accomplish one goal…

To help you embark successfully on your own alpha journey in life. 

My Approach To Helping People Is Super Simple

I’ve been documenting my own journey since 2019 on my blog, YouTube channel, and podcast. 

In that time, I’ve gone through many failures and victories. And I’ve learned what works, and perhaps more importantly, what doesn’t work! 

My whole ‘mission’ with this platform is to show you exactly what that system is, so that you can replicate the positives of the alpha journey yourself and succeed in your own efforts to become truly alpha in your own life. 

On this website, you’ll find information, guidance, resources, personal anecdotes, life lessons, and product recommendations to help you overcome obstacles and succeed at becoming a full-fledged, successful alpha mentality man or woman. 

What Is The Alpha Mentality?

The definition of alpha mentality: Being ‘alpha’ means: to take action-oriented, intentional control of your life energy, resources, and strategic trajectory—embracing radical self-responsibility, shirking victim mentality, and determining to utilize your time and resources wisely to proactively create a meaningful, significant destiny and lasting legacy of greatness in the world.

Is The Alpha Mentality Just For Men?

Absolutely not! Women can (and should) embrace the alpha mentality as well. There are powerful alpha males and alpha females! 

Why I Believe In The Alpha Mentality

A brief history of my own journey

My life story is long and complicated—but here’s the ‘quick and dirty’ version. 

I grew up being ‘decent’ enough at things to be ‘moderately successful.’ But I didn’t chase excellence. I tended to give up on things. I was stubborn, hard-headed, ignorant, and basically foolish. 

I didn’t really have any sense of structure or value in my life. 

I pretty much sucked at dating. More by sheer luck than anything, I managed to get married in 2007.

Then, my marriage just kind of spiraled downward, ending in a heartbreaking divorce that absolutely broke me in 2017. 

My life was in shambles, and everything collapsed around me. I realized that my attempts to be ‘successful’ up until this point had all failed me. 

I was heartbroken, single (with zero dating prospects), financially broken, out of shape, unhealthy, depressed, anxious, and just in general a pathetic excuse for a human. 

I knew at this point that I had two choices. 

I could either give up—or I could figure out what had gone wrong in my life, and start working on trying to fix it. 

I decided to try again. I hit the ‘reset’ button on my life, and started again trying to learn how to date, earn money, make friends, and just successfully ‘live,’ starting at the age of 30. 

This was when I discovered the alpha mentality, and learned that I had actually been living in ‘beta mentality’ up to this point. 

This was why my life had been such a disaster. And when I started to fix this problem, everything started to turn around. 

Today, I’m on a mission to become a ripped, attractive, successful, powerful alpha millionaire leader with an amazing dating life and tribe. And every day, I get closer to checking off each and every one of those metrics! 

I’ve already mastered the dating and relationship parts. I’m constantly striving to learn how to be a better leader (that’s a deep and long-term process). I’m also focused on the ‘millionaire’ and ‘ripped’ parts. Every day, I make progress toward my goals. 

And it all started with basic mindset shift and truly embracing the alpha mentality.

What Can The Alpha Mentality Do For You?

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Before I embraced the alpha mentality in my life, I was:

  • Out of shape
  • Financially broke (with zero understanding of how to fix it)
  • Lonely, with zero understanding of how to date or form meaningful relationships
  • Struggling to stay motivated
  • Depressed
  • Anxious
  • Constantly ‘behind the curve’ in life
  • At war with my own masculinity
  • Ashamed of my life and how little I had accomplished
  • Deeply entrenched in a ‘victim’ mindset
  • Weak, pathetic, fearful, and beta
  • Spiraling downwards instead of leveling up to become my best self

See, embracing the alpha mentality in life (and learning about the core principles) gave me a program and a process for how to start fixing all of these problems.

Today, my life looks a lot different: 

  • My dating life is amazing
  • I’m in better shape than I’ve ever been in my life
  • I have amazing friendships and relationships (with the ability to create more whenever I desire)
  • I’m highly motivated
  • I make more money than I’ve ever made, and am well on my way to getting ‘real money’ and crossing that ‘millionaire’ threshold
  • I’m hopeful, optimistic, inspired, and motivated to conquer the future
  • I’m actually getting ‘ahead’ in life instead of constantly falling behind
  • My life is characterized by ‘power and abundance’ instead of ‘fear and scarcity’
  • I embrace my natural masculinity, which fills me with price, power, and raw masculine ‘strength’ on a day to day basis (but the alpha mentality isn’t just for men. It can help women to find power in their own natural femininity as well)
  • Every day, I get closer to reaching even my biggest goals

And to be honest, I’m just getting started! 

It’s all a mindset game that translates to real action taken in the real world. 

That’s what the alpha mentality can do for you. 

It can radically shift your mindset paradigm to equip you for a life of success, power, and abundance. 

How To Embark On Your Own Alpha Journey - Start Leveling Up In All 9 Of The Vital Life Domains

This is the process that I used to radically transform my life and become 'truly alpha'

The 9 Vital Life Domains

1. Embrace The Alpha Mentality

  • Commit to the alpha mentality
  • Strive to be ‘the best man or woman in the room’
  • Adopt the alpha code
  • Shirk the ‘victim mentality’

Read our in-depth guide on how to embrace the alpha mentality

2. Mind Your Business

  • Embrace ‘radical self-responsibility’
  • Take back control of your life
  • Manage the ‘vital infrastructures’ that keep your life moving forward
  • Properly balance ’emotion’ and ‘rationality’ 

Read our in-depth guide on how to 'mind your business' like a true alpha

3. Get Your Money

  • Get a job
  • Learn a high-income skill
  • Start getting ‘real money’
  • Build ‘assets’ to earn you money while you sleep

Read our in-depth guide on how to build sustainable alpha-level wealth

4. Pursue Your Purpose

  • Figure out what you want in life
  • Make a plan to begin the journey

Read our in-depth guide on how to find your purpose in life and achieve it

5. Level Up Mind, Body, And Spirit

  • Become a ‘high value’ man or woman
  • Develop yourself mentally
  • Develop yourself physically
  • Develop yourself spiritually
  • Become 1% better every single day

Read our in-depth guide on how to level up your mind, body, and spirit

6. Embark On Your Hero's Arc

  • Take action and begin the journey
  • Leave the comfort zone
  • Fail, then learn from your mistakes
  • Analyze, adapt, and pivot to overcome

Read our in-depth guide on how to embark on your own hero's arc

7. Find An Intimate Partner (i.e. Master Your Dating Life)

  • Level up your attraction metrics
  • Understand the fundamentals of human mating behavior
  • Embrace masculine or feminine frame (for men and women respectively)
  • Create a proper dating funnel
  • Learn the essential dating skills
  • Stick with the process and master it to achieve true dating life abundance and success

Read our in-depth guide on how to master your dating life (for men and women)

8. Build Your Tribe

  • Master your relationship with your intimate partner
  • Develop your leadership abilities
  • Build your family
  • Build your circle
  • Build your tribe
  • Invest in your community

Read our in-depth guide on how to build a successful, thriving tribe - like a true alpha

9. Create A Lasting Legacy Of Greatness

  • Decide how you’re going to change the world
  • Expand the borders of your empire
  • Create a lasting legacy that will outlive your mortal lifespan

Read our in-depth guide on how to create a real lasting legacy of greatness

Books To Help You Learn About The Alpha Mentality

By Jordan B. Peterson

An amazing book that would be helpful to any human who wants to start succeeding in life in all of the ways that matter the most. 

By David Goggins

If you really want to develop your mental toughness and overcome the victim mentality, this book is a MUST READ. 

By Jocko Willink and Leif Babin

If you want to level up in the areas of leadership and radical self-responsibility, this book is an absolute alpha MUST READ. 

By Sun Tzu

This book is truly a MUST READ for every alpha, due to the practical and strategic life wisdom that it contains. It’s relevant for combat, business, and any other endeavor that requires you to think through a strategy to achieve victory. 

By Robert Augustus Masters

If you’re on a journey to learn how to become a healthy, healed masculine man, then this book is a MUST READ.