My life story is long and complicated—but here’s the ‘quick and dirty’ version.
I grew up being ‘decent’ enough at things to be ‘moderately successful.’ But I didn’t chase excellence. I tended to give up on things. I was stubborn, hard-headed, ignorant, and basically foolish.
I didn’t really have any sense of structure or value in my life.
I pretty much sucked at dating. More by sheer luck than anything, I managed to get married in 2007.
Then, my marriage just kind of spiraled downward, ending in a heartbreaking divorce that absolutely broke me in 2017.
My life was in shambles, and everything collapsed around me. I realized that my attempts to be ‘successful’ up until this point had all failed me.
I was heartbroken, single (with zero dating prospects), financially broken, out of shape, unhealthy, depressed, anxious, and just in general a pathetic excuse for a human.
I knew at this point that I had two choices.
I could either give up—or I could figure out what had gone wrong in my life, and start working on trying to fix it.
I decided to try again. I hit the ‘reset’ button on my life, and started again trying to learn how to date, earn money, make friends, and just successfully ‘live,’ starting at the age of 30.
This was when I discovered the alpha mentality, and learned that I had actually been living in ‘beta mentality’ up to this point.
This was why my life had been such a disaster. And when I started to fix this problem, everything started to turn around.
Today, I’m on a mission to become a ripped, attractive, successful, powerful alpha millionaire leader with an amazing dating life and tribe. And every day, I get closer to checking off each and every one of those metrics!
I’ve already mastered the dating and relationship parts. I’m constantly striving to learn how to be a better leader (that’s a deep and long-term process). I’m also focused on the ‘millionaire’ and ‘ripped’ parts. Every day, I make progress toward my goals.
And it all started with basic mindset shift and truly embracing the alpha mentality.