So I have been thinking about something.
And I don’t usually make blog posts like this, but I feel like this is a very important lesson we need to learn. We need to stop being little bitches in our lives.
We need to stop being weak, we need to stop being the kind of person who lets life toss us around, the kind of person that lets other people walk all over us.
I’m as guilty of this as anyone.
The whole reason I found the alpha mentality to begin with was because I’d let other people walk all over me. I’d let other people take advantage of me until I had nothing left to give them.
As a result, my life crashed and burned around me… and then I had to start all over again.
And in some ways, that was one of the best things that ever happened to me. Because it taught me the value of being a strong, powerful, alpha mentality man.
And this goes for women as well.
Don’t be a little bitch with a victim mindset. Don’t be the kind of person who just blames your problems on other people.
If there is something you don’t like in your life, you have the power to take the initiative to fix it.
If there’s something that isn’t going well, something that is bothering you, something that just pisses you off, it’s time for you to fix it and move on.
It’s time for you to take the initiative and become the strong, alpha-minded man or woman you need to be to face that challenge head-on and beat it.
That is such an important thing to do.
We can be kind, we can be respectful. You don’t have to be mean, but you have to be tough.
You gotta be tough.
I recently made a blog post about how happiness makes us more attractive.
But you cannot be happy if your life is out of order. You cannot be happy if you know that you’re constantly being walked over by people.
If there are people in your life who are trying to drag you down, constantly bringing you negativity, you can’t be happy around them.
It’s not going to work, you’re going to lose and you’re going to be a sucker.
You’re going to look like a fool. And then you’re going to be tempted to blame them.
And that’s how the victim mentality starts and perpetuates.
But it’s time for us to do better.
We have to be strong enough, tough enough, to do the hard things, to say the hard things. The honest things, the things that need to be said.
And if you can deal with the people standing in your way with some tact and kindness, all the better.
There’s no reason to let someone else have so much power over you that you lose your temper.
And I’m telling you this from experience, I’ve had to learn this lesson. In some ways, this lesson recycles itself in my life. Because even if you get it figured out once, it has a way of coming back around.
Anyways, this is just your friendly neighborhood reminder from me, not to be a little bitch.
Not to let the circumstances of life beat you down.
Not to let other people get the better of you.
It’s time to alpha up and do what we need to do.
It’s time to turn our lives around and get them back on track so that we can mind our business, get our money, and pursue our purpose.
That’s what it’s all about.
If there’s something keeping you from doing those three things to the greatest extent possible, something’s gotta change.
You’ve gotta take action somewhere, and that’s just the truth.
That’s gonna be it for this one.
Go with grace, my friends, and never give up your power.
Until next time…
Joshua K. Sigafus