So we’re just gonna jump right into it. I really like this keyword I picked out for this one
Or do they?
And if so, why or why not?
This post is mostly for the gentlemen who are interested in women, but who are also maybe a little bit disillusioned with dating.
And for one reason or another, they’ve come to the conclusion that most women just suck.
And that must be the answer to why their dating life isn’t going very well.
But is it true? Let’s dive in and discuss it.
Do Women Suck, For Real?
All right, so first things first, I’m going to set the record straight.
Not all women suck, just like not all men suck.
But a lot of people do feel like this. And if you’re feeling this way, it’s important to understand that you are not the only one.
Where the mistake is being made is that women are not wholly to blame for the dating problems that men are facing.
And in truth, if you are starting to feel like most women suck in the dating marketplace, it’s probably because you are suffering from a very common dating problem.
What is the problem?
The Problem Is That You’re Not Spending Enough Time Around Higher Value People
You have to understand that most of the human population isn’t good at dating, relationships, or attraction.
And if you were going to arrange the population into a graph, it would look a lot like a pyramid.
At the base, you have a bunch of people who don’t know how to date, and their lives are basically trainwrecks.
They make poor choices, they don’t think rationally, they let nonsense into their life… and as a result, things aren’t pretty.
These people may be somewhat physically attractive, and they may be fun—but that’s about all they have going for them.
You need to understand that the vast majority of people are going to fall into the low value dating partner category.
Because learning to level up attraction and dating as skills isn’t something that’s very common in our world. And not very many people actively focus on building up those skills.
But there are also other things that affect this.
For example, not everyone works on themselves. Not everyone works to increase their self-awareness. Not everyone is striving to be more rational, sensible, and reasonable.
To put it honestly, a lot of people just coast along in life. They don’t consciously work to bring more order into their lives—and so everything is just chaos.
But that’s only part of the problem. Are you ready for the ugly part?
If You Feel Like All Of Your Dating Options Suck, Then You Are Also Stuck In This Lower Level Of The Pyramid
I’m not going to sugarcoat this for you, men.
If you feel like the vast majority of women you try to date just aren’t high value, then there is a very high chance that you are the common denominator.
You aren’t attracting high value women into your life, and that’s a huge problem that you’re going to have to solve.
- Maybe you’re getting ghosted.
- Maybe you keep getting flaked on.
- Maybe you keep getting cheated on.
- Maybe they keep going back to their exes.
- Maybe they keep going after different men, and there’s no order, rhyme, or reason to anything.
- Maybe they’re dramatic, irresponsible, irrational—or whatever the problem is.
- Maybe they say one thing and do another.
- Or—maybe they just aren’t as ‘beautiful’ as the women you would like to be dating.
But here’s the thing.
If you’re experiencing this problem, the reason why is because you are stuck in that lowest level of the pyramid. You’re trying to date low-value partners.
And I’m gonna be honest with you. The reason you’re continuing to get stuck at this level of the pyramid is because you haven’t leveled yourself up enough to attract anyone better.
What Can You Do About It?
Alright. We’ve isolated the problem.
Now, we need to talk about a solution.
And once again, I’m not going to bullsh*t you here, men.
The solution is simple, but it isn’t easy.
You need to level up and become a higher value, alpha-mentality man.
Quality begets quality.
If you want to stop feeling like women suck, you need to level up to a point where you are getting the attention of higher value women.
Trust me. There are some amazing women in this world, and dating high value women is a pleasure.
Here’s how you do it.
Step 1: Go Monk For A While And Stop Associating With Low-Value Women
If you keep spending time with low-value women, you’re going to keep getting sucked back into that frame.
Go monk for a while. Stop swiping on apps and chasing tail.
Instead, start focusing on yourself.
Step 2: Start Leveling Up As A Man
Check out this post for 31 awesome tips on how to become a better man.
Start hitting the gym, reading some books, meditating, and learning some high-income skills.
Have you started a side hustle yet? If not, that’s something you need to start working on pronto.
How many great books have you read about how to level-up as a man?
Here’s a quick list of books that you should knock out right away.
- To Be a Man: A Guide to True Masculine Power – Robert Augustus Masters
- 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos – Jordan B. Peterson
- The Noble Art of Seducing Women: My Foolproof Guide to Pulling Any Woman You Want – Kezia Noble
- The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating – David M. Buss
- Models: Attract Women Through Honesty – Mark Manson
Want to sink your teeth into something a bit more hardcore, that will really level you up?
Order a copy of The Rational Male, by Rollo Tomassi.
Step 3: Find Your Purpose In Life, And Set Some Long-Term Goals For Yourself
What is your purpose in life?
How are you going to improve the world and leave a lasting legacy of greatness?
And don’t even hit me with that “I just want to be a normal guy. Not everyone has to do something great” bullsh*t.
If you don’t want to become the best that you can be and leave a lasting dent in the universe, this is the wrong website for you—and I’m the wrong guy to be reading/listening to.
Stop settling for a bullsh*t life.
Stop settling for coasting along, making a low-income wage, and not aspiring for more in life.
Stop smoking weed, getting hammered, and wasting your time on video games (unless you have a passion for video games and plan to actually apply yourself to them in a businesses-sense).
Sure, a bit of escapism is fine. But far too many men make it a much bigger part of their life than it should be.
Step 4: Adopt A True Alpha Mentality In Your Life
“But Josh, you don’t understand… I don’t want to do all of that stuff. I just want to be a normal guy, go to work, come home, do whatever I want on the weekends, and have a normal girlfriend. Is that wrong? Does that make me a p*ssy?”
Nope, there is nothing wrong with that. But it’s not high-level thinking. And if that is what you want out of life, seriously—I’m not the guy to be listening to, because I say f*ck all of that bullsh*t.
I get one life to live, and I plan to live the hell out of it and make it as glorious as possible in the process.
And that means finding a purpose, committing to some goals, and leveling-up to make myself the best man that I can possibly be.
I want to win big… in business, in money, with women, with my life purpose, etc.
I plan to make a big enough dent in the world that a lot of people talk about me and remember me when I’m gone.
That’s the real sh*t. That’s what I want. That’s the afterlife we men should be striving for. And that’s the attitude we need to have if we want to be truly high-value alpha men.
Once You Start Leveling Up In Life, High-Value Women Will Start To Notice You
Limit yourself to only pursuing women who are at a higher level of quality.
I’m talking about beautiful women who have their sh*t together.
- No more drama.
- No more flaky bullsh*t.
- No more entertaining women who still go back to their exes.
- No more entertaining women who are wishy-washy, who don’t know what they want.
- No more entertaining women who are broke, who don’t have goals, who don’t accomplish anything, who just smoke weed and drift along in life.
Sure, those women are fun. And they’re fun to have sex with, especially if they have a nice body and they’re freaky in bed.
But spending too much time with them is a liability, and it saps your resources.
As higher value men, we need to raise our standards and start paying attention to the higher-value ladies out there.
They are out there, men.
You just need to give them a chance, and you need to cut off the low-quality women in your life.
Stop wasting your time on the ones that shouldn’t be getting any of your time or attention.
At The Same Time, Keep Leveling Up As A Man – And Keep Practicing The Skills Of Dating And Attraction
As men, we should want to date, have sex, and win with women.
That’s part of our nature, and we should embrace it.
So keep leveling up, and keep learning about the skills of attraction and dating.
Learn how to ask a woman out and follow it up with authentic, genuine masculinity to keep her interested.
Want to learn how to be more masculine? Check out this post: How To Be More Masculine: 7 Steps For The Modern Man
Far too many men neglect to level up in these valuable skills—and their sex lives and relationship lives suffer as a result.
Check out this post to learn some dating essentials for men.
At the end of the day, we all want to be better men.
Level up, adapt, rise above your challenges, and win.
This is the key to success, and rising above that lower-level of the pyramid you’ve been stuck at for so long.
Go with grace, my friends. And never give up your power.
Until next time…
Joshua K. Sigafus